Sunday, July 31, 2016

Corduroy Mansions - Book 20


I finally finished a book!  Boy, am I way behind on my Read 52 Books in 52 Weeks challenge.  I knew I would be, because I decided to focus on reading the Bible and also because I've been taking Theology courses.  I knew I just wouldn't be able to keep up that rapid rate of reading.  The truth is, for me, I have to read a lot of fluffy stuff in order to keep up.  I am not really a fast reader. And life has been so crazy in addition to going back to school, that even when I did have time to read before bed, I fell asleep almost immediately.

Corduroy Mansions is by Alexander McCall Smith of No. 1 Ladies Detective Agency fame.  This series is set in London in a house, called Corduroy Mansions, which has been turned into flats.  Basically it chronicles the lives of the flat-dwellers there.  It is a gentle, light, charming, intelligent and subtly humorous story or rather collection of stories.  It would make a great beach book and it should have been the type of book I can read in a few days.  Why it took me a month . . . well, I already explained why!

The characters are all likable (except for one), which is pleasant.  While there are several characters, we mostly see things through the eyes of William the kind and a little too gentle wine merchant, Barbara who breaks up with the odious MP Oedipus Snark only to find true love immediately, Caroline who has boy trouble, and Berthea Snark, Oedipus Snark's mother.  This one cracked me up the most - she is a psychoanalyst who hasn't really got a clue, named her son Oedipus - can't stand him and is writing a biography of him.  Her very simple but spiritual brother Terence is also a lovely character.  There's a bit of poking fun, gently of course, at New Agey diets and spiritual trends.  The best thing is how the author would follow the thinking of each of the characters.  We really get their personalities and outlook on life as they meander into sometimes deep contemplations on the everyday conundrums we all face.

There is something midlife here in the wisdom in the book, and the saddest thing is that the two people who have children have pretty much failed as parents.  There's a lot of regret and dealing with the fact that they don't like their own offspring.

This book is the first of a series.  I think there are at least two more.  I may pick up another one if I have a lull in my life and need something gentle but interesting to read.

For more book reviews go to Read 52 Books in 52 Weeks.

Saturday, July 30, 2016

Tracy Lee Simmons

I got to go to a talk given by Tracy Lee Simmons today.  He's the guy that wrote Climbing Parnassus. (Though he said he's done a lot of other stuff too!) I bought the book back when it first came out, but, alas, it was back when I had many smallish children and I was homeschooling them all.  During that period of time I would frequently start books, never to finish them.  I am afraid Climbing Parnassus fell into that category.  I am pretty sure I still have it, but, alas again, most of my books are in boxes or on shelves that have been blocked by said boxes.  So I can not get to it right now.  However, in the next couple of weeks, I anticipate being able to sort through and re-shelve my books.  And then when I find it, I will really read it this time!



The talk was great.  He doesn't really give many talks, not really his thing, but he made an exception this time.  It is coming on the 15th year of the publication of the book and the publishers want to re-issue it and they want him to do some publicity for it.

Anyway, Professor Simmons came across as a warm, humble and devout intellectual.   I really related to him on a personal level.  He talked about his parents who were children of the Depression and World War II (mine too) and his dad was a bomber pilot in WWII.   Mine too!  Mine was in the Pacific while his father flew over Germany.  He said a lot of things that really resonated with me.  I wish I could have talked to him one on one a bit, but he left very soon after the talk.




Friday, July 29, 2016

Oliver!



Becky's summer musical this year is Oliver!  She's in the ensemble and she also gets to sing 11 lines (I think that's what she said) herself as the Milkmaid.

Here's info if anyone reading this wants to go!

Here's a clip of some people performing the scene:

Thursday, July 28, 2016

WYD Poland 2016

Two of my sons are at World Youth Day.  It is such a culture shock to be watching 1 to 2 million joyful, enthusiastic youths from all around the world praying, singing and rejoicing and then turn on the national news.  We need love and mercy so badly!

Sean and Will are staying at this church:


I haven't heard much from them.  Sean was jet-lagged and didn't go to the opening Mass.  They did go sight seeing in Krakow yesterday and today they were at Pope Francis' Mass.

It is rainy this week in Krakow and all the kids are wearing red, blue and yellow ponchos.  So most of the camera shots look like this:


I can't wait until they get back and I can hear all about it.  I hope they are having a wonderful time.

A great link for lots of WYD stuff: http://aleteia.org/special-world-youth-day-2016/



Wednesday, July 27, 2016

Phone Scams - PSA

I just did my civic duty and reported a phone scam.  We've gotten this robocall a couple times before.  Some one says they are from the IRS and this is their final warning and they are preparing to file a lawsuit against us.

I pretty sure we are ok with the IRS and they would have least write a letter before making a robocall telling us they are suing us!

The scam phone number is 714-813-6673  It is from California.

I called the FTC Phone Scam hotline 1-888-382-1222.

We are on the Do Not Call list but we get so many sales/scam calls anyway.  Finally, I got fed up and decided to start reporting them.

Tuesday, July 26, 2016

Stuff I don't want to read


I am glad they caught the guy, but I am so nervous about terrorism at WYD.  Please God, don't let anything happen!

This terrible attack:  I read somewhere else the priest was actually beheaded.

This is so disturbing.

On Sunday, Father Langan, the old Jesuit priest from Georgetown said Mass for us.  At the end before the final blessing he asked us all to pray for peace.  He said that the world seems like an especially evil and violent place right now, and that feeling is probably intensified by the fact that we have instant communication about every bad thing that happens, but this should increase our prayer and our desire for peace.

Monday, July 25, 2016

How Americans Feel About Abortion

The Republican party has imploded in the sorriest, scariest way and the Democratic party is out of touch with what ordinary Americans think (you know the ones they are always busy telling us they care about?)

A People for Life and Freedom of Conscience

Saturday, July 23, 2016

Tim Kaine?

I live in Virginia and he barely registers on my radar.  I guess I am that ignorant of Virginia politics.  Shame on me.  CNN and The Washington Post call him popular.  Is he?  I am much more aware of Mark Warner - I guess because he's been in office longer.

I actually voted for Kaine for governor because I could not stand Kilgore.  One thing I liked about Kaine was he campaigned against the death penalty.  So when I voted I thought, well, at least he'll do something about that barbarism in Virginia.  Except he didn't.  At all.  People still got executed during his term.  I just looked it up.  Twelve people were executed on his watch.  I wonder if he commuted any sentences or granted any amnesty?    Anyway, I remember thinking at the time, thanks for nothing, Kaine.

The other thing I remember about him was that when that vaccination for cervical cancer first came out he was absolutely rabid that it should be forced on young girls (was it ages 12 and up?).   I mean the language was scary.  I am not an anti-vax person.  I vaccinated all my kids, but I am very wary of all the new vaccinations that pop up that seemed to be pushed on us aggressively.  And this one is weird.  It is to prevent certain types of cervical cancer you can get from an STD.

So that's all I got on Tim Kaine.  My impression is he is a big nothing but has those scary totalitarian impulses that Democrats seem to have these days.  (Well, Republicans do too!  Trump being case in point here.  I read somewhere someone said that as the old WWII generation dies away, fascism seems to be on the rise.)

But I must be honest and say I am not the most informed person about Kaine.   So I guess I should do a little research.

Friday, July 22, 2016

Seano's Big Adventure

Sean is leaving today for Boston.  Then he and Will are off to World Youth Day in Krakow, Poland.  My heart is full of anxiety and prayer.  I know Will will have a great experience, and I am hoping Sean will as well.  He's not a crowd person and it is hard for him to adjust to changes.  He's never been a great traveler.  But I hope all that gets eclipsed by the thrill of traveling on his own (well, with his brother) and doing something really different and meaningful.  I hope he has a great adventure where he gets to see new things, meet new people, think new thoughts, pray new prayers.  I hope this is a growing experience that fuels his maturity into manhood and strengthens his soul.

I plan to watch/record all the WYD stuff on EWTN so I can participate vicariously.  I also want to go to confession, daily mass and remember to say the Divine Chaplet at 3 each day they are there.  I am going to make it my own mini-pilgrimage.  Kind of like a stay-cation . . .

St. John the Evangelist and St. John the Baptist, pray for Sean.
Blessed Jacopone da Todi, pray for Sean.

Thursday, July 21, 2016

Life Under Construction

In addition to having workmen show up almost every morning at 8 or thereabouts and having electricity and internet go out for periods of time as they rewire things, we've also got other things to adjust to.

Every year I look forward to my crepe myrtle blooming in midsummer.  This dumpster has been sitting in our driveway for over a month now.

Crepe Myrtle with Dumpster.

Our kitchen is only half useable until they find the right color grout to put in the gap between the new countertops and the tile on the wall.  So we are currently cooking like this:

Toaster oven on top; microwave on the bottom.  Not that bad!

Our living room has been used as storage for over a month now.  There's actually less stuff in it right now.

Vanities for the hall and jack and jill bathrooms, plus the elfa closet organizers for the master bedroom closet.


New sink

Look how deep this sink is!  I've never had such a nice sink before.


Wednesday, July 20, 2016

Conservatism Means Conservation

This is an interesting article.  There are certain things I don't get about conservatives.  One of them is that they often have a knee jerk response to environmentalism.  I have often thought:  guys, it is right in the word 'conservation' (just like the title of the article).  The best instincts of conservatism (there are not so good instincts too) is to want to preserve what is good, true and beautiful from the past and not be iconoclasts that try to 'liberate' us from every thing that went before us.  So why isn't there a stronger conservation movement among conservatives?  I blame the stupid Republican party and hate-mongering talk radio.  I mean there is a whole subsection of conservatives who revere the pioneers and country life and decentralized power.  These are the ones who love Wendell Berry and call themselves crunchy cons.  And yet they never seem to be represented in any truly cohesive way.  You just find little strands here and there at Front Porch Republic and the like.

(Btw, something that really shifted my views on this was the book Climate of Crisis.)



I can't say I agree with everything Roger Scruton says in his article and I need to reread it to get things fully, but I found the part about how the suburbs developed really interesting.  And I have come to dislike zoning ever since I realized that the rise in homelessness was, in part, due to boarding houses being zoned out of existence.  I used to always wonder: whatever happened to boarding houses?  So many novels or movies have boarding houses in them, yet they don't seem to exist anymore.  Well there's a reason for that!  Now people who don't have enough money to rent an apartment, can't just rent a little room somewhere anymore.  I looked up my county's rules one time and all the regs have made it very difficult for poor people.  Both the people who would like a little bit of income from renting out a room to those people who can't afford to live anywhere else.


Tuesday, July 19, 2016

New Countertops!

Who cares if the Republican party is a laughingstock of bozos who have betrayed anyone with actual conservative values?  I've got new countertops!

Ta da!

A funny story.  Yesterday morning when the tile guy showed up he had all these long tile countertops in the back of his pick up.  When Rick went out to go to work he saw it and called me out.  We were surprised at the pattern because it looked a bit different than we remembered but we had only been looking at a small square of it.  Looking at it on a long counter gave us a different perspective.  It had a lot more swirlingness to it and more white.  We really liked it!  We thought, wow, we shouldn't have been so worried we wouldn't like it. This will look great!

Then the tile guy said, no that's not yours.  Yours is on the other side.  So we went around, and sure enough it was the exact same pattern that we'd seen on the little sample tile.  So then Rick and I looked at each other like, uh oh.  Are we really going to hate this countertop once it goes in?

But!  Once it went in, we really did like it.

Choosing countertops and tile is too stressful for me.  All that money and I have no idea what I am doing.  It is very nerve-wracking.  So glad I didn't go into interior design.




I do think its pretty!

The workers were excellent and no damage to the tiles.  However, we will have to have an extra thick grout line along where the countertop meets the wall.

Monday, July 18, 2016

Countertops!

Today is the day!  We are getting our new countertops.  I picked the same Silestone for the upstairs bathrooms and the kitchen.  And yet I have no idea if I'll really like it!  The truth is it was the one pattern I was ok with.  I really didn't love any of them.  I wanted a contrast with the white island (which I found out Rick never liked what I chose to begin with!).  But I wanted something not too dark, yet neutral, and at the same time went with our maple cabinets.  Turns out there is not a whole lot out there that fits all those requirements.

Old green laminate.  I still like it.


We put in laminate when we were redoing the kitchen 11 years ago because we ran out of money.  I always really liked the green color, but Rick never did like laminate.  And he vowed one day we'd change them out for something better.  Well, that day has come.  When we decided to do the long needed bathrooms overhaul, we decided we might as well do the kitchen too.


I am worried about possible damage to the tiles.


We are going to be without a kitchen for two days.  They are also painting our master bathroom and bedrooms so we'll be without those (well, we haven't had a bathroom in over a month) for two days as well.

This counter is always covered in mountains of clutter so I am enjoying seeing it nice and clean right before it goes!


Can't wait for this all to be over, even as I am very happy to have it all being done!

Friday, July 15, 2016

Prayer for Peace

The world is a violent and ugly place.  The Knights of Columbus started a novena for peace yesterday, the day of the horrible attack in Nice, France.  It is simply praying the prayer of St. Francis of Assisi every day for nine days:

I know some people sneer at prayer, saying action is better.  But honestly there is not much I can do except to pray for others, and to convert my own heart to try to love others around me as best I can.

The Peace Prayer

Lord, make me an instrument of Thy peace;
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is error, the truth;
Where there is doubt, the faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
And where there is sadness, joy.

O Divine Master,
Grant that I may not so much seek
To be consoled, as to console;
To be understood, as to understand;
To be loved as to love.

For it is in giving that we receive;
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.  Amen.

Tuesday, July 12, 2016

Guns are a problem

I don't know the answer to the problem of guns.  These are just my ignorant musings.

1)  I really don't want to live in a country where everyone is toting guns around.  This I think is the NRA response to the fact that we have murderous criminals and terrorists in our midst, that if the good guys have guns they can stop said murderers and terrorists.  I do think this is true to a point.  There probably are circumstances where a civilian who is trained can protect others from some crazy person trying to do them harm.  But if everyone takes this attitude that seems to me to just increase the chances of accident, mistaken reactions, poor judgment, etc.  There are way too many people who are angry, anxious, depressed, jumpy, unstable, confused, sleep-deprived, drunk, doped up, etc to have most people walking around with guns.  We already have some jumpy cops who tend to respond to every encounter like it's going to be a shoot out.  And they are supposed to be trained to handle high crisis situations!  I remember a few years ago a cop shot an Asian lady who was having a psychotic episode at the local Walmart.  She was wielding a knife or scissors or something and the cop shot and killed her.  If he didn't have that gun, she'd be alive today because he'd have to come up with something else short of deadly force for the situation that probably didn't call for deadly force.  I think my reaction was why didn't he just knock her down with a shopping cart for goodness sake.  You know the saying:  when all you have is a hammer. . . .  So it is just untenable to think that if everyone packed heat, there would somehow be less gun death.  People just don't have enough self-control.  And, man, everyone would be paranoid knowing that most other people had guns on them.

2)  Black/white gun culture differences - this might be ragingly racist sounding on my part, but I honestly don't mean it that way.  I am sure this is just because of where I live and who my associates are and the fact that I'm white, but to me white gun culture includes the following:  hunters, military, guys who belong to the Isaac Walton league and like to go trap shooting, 2nd Amendment constitutionalists, rednecks who drink and shoot tin cans in their backyard and occasionally each other, criminals.  Black gun culture - gangstas, drug lords, rap artists who die young at the hands of thugs.  Come to think of it now, plenty of black people join the military so that should be part of my perception but it doesn't figure heavily.  I am just talking about my own (faulty) perceptions.  When I think of white gun owners I have a mix of good and bad.  When I think of black gun owners I think of gangsters.  I used to work for the public defenders office in Baltimore so this has probably colored my perceptions.  Baltimore is torn with gang violence.  The truth is though that black pop culture right now is rooted in a glorified gangsta world.  That could not be good when it comes to how others perceive African-Americans.

On the other hand, rap culture isn't the only place where violence is glorified. We have movies, TV and video games as well.  Our culture is saturated with it.

3)  I have two sisters who married good men who definitely were part of the white gun culture, both from the south.  One from South Carolina and the other from southern Virginia very near the border with North Carolina.  The family from South Carolina has had two tragedies attributed to guns.  One, a young nephew of my brother in law, accidentally shot and killed his sister when disobediently playing with his father's gun.   Two, my own nephew, someone who loved the outdoors, hunting and fishing, committed suicide with his hunting rifle.  The other family from southern Virginia was military and the grandfather wound up committing suicide in his old age.  Nobody else in my family does anything with guns at all, three of whom are ex-Navy.  Correspondingly they have had no gun related tragedies.  So in my perception, even if not all white gun owners are hicks or criminals they still have an increase of gun violence.

4)  The 2nd amendment really does say "a well regulated militia."   Even though the punctuation is ambiguous, the idea is there.  It doesn't say every individual is entitled to have a rapid firing powerful weapon that can mow down dozens of people in seconds.  This was back when people brought their own guns to the fight.  I mean if we go to original intent, these guys were talking about muskets!  You know guns that took time to reload and weren't all that accurate.  War back then was not nearly as bloody and as lethal as it is now.  The country was also largely rural without a police force, everyone having to hunt for food and defend one's self against wild animals, Indians, outlaws, etc.

5)  I think though the horse is out of the barn.  I don't know how to take back the guns with causing a civil war.  Every time there is a tragedy the sale of guns goes up, not down.  People do want the ability to defend themselves.  They get scared.  If the bad guys have guns then they want them too.

6)  I am for gun control but I think gun control advocates are really lousy at what they do.  Spectacularly so.   Just like the healthcare thing, I basically distrust them because I think there is a pretty obvious agenda lurking behind their cause.  Healthcare brought us aggression against the 1st amendment and our free exercise of religion.  Just exactly the way those who feared it would said it would.  In the same way,  people who are for gun control aren't strong on protecting most constitutional rights.  It seems like they are very interested in curtailing the freedoms of citizens and growing a big, statist, central government.  I think a lot of times the gun control folks misrepresent things too.   They are very propagandistic.  If you really, really want gun control be reasonable and don't demonize the other side.  That's how people work together.

7)  On the other hand the NRA is too absolutist in its approach.  Everything is a slippery slope to them.  But reasonable compromise does not necessarily mean stripping the 2nd Amendment of any meaning.  They demonize the other side too.  Just quit it y'all!  Too many people are dying!  Realize that both sides have their reasons and those reasons have merit.  Reasonable people can differ, but reasonable people can also compromise so that both sides feel confident they are being heard and respected.

Respect.  That is what is missing.

8)  One idea I've had that I've probably said before is that maybe guns should be handled the way driver's licenses are handled.  You have to be trained, you have to pass a test, you can temporarily get your license suspended for any serious infractions, but you get your day in court to argue against it if you feel it is unfair, you have to renew the license every so often and pass another test.  You can even permanently lose your license too in rare cases.  We don't go around railing against how the DMV infringes on our constitutional right to travel, do we?  No. We recognize that we need a lot of regulation to keep things moving and as safe as possible, even though thousands of people die each year by car.    Guns, like cars are inherently dangerous and take a toll on our society.  A really bad toll where citizens and police are practically at war with each other.  It makes perfect sense to try to regulate them to make a dangerous situation as safe as possible, knowing that there will be inevitable death and injury, just like with cars.

Monday, July 11, 2016

Another really good article

This is excellent.

Stuff going on

I took my first on line exam yesterday.  It was odd.  I had to show some guy skyping from India my passport and then show him that I had nothing on the table around me and no cell phone, etc.  But then he read out the exam instructions and the teacher had said we could write our essays in our word program and then cut and paste into the exam form.  So I opened up word and I still had up the very lists of terms I was supposed to know for the exam!  So I quick got rid of that, but really, it would be incredibly easy to cheat!  But I didn't.  I promise!

But I am excited I got a 93% for the course, so I am feeling pretty good about that.  The first part of the exam was exactly what I had expected but the second half which was the two essays really got me off kilter.  I just don't think I studied in the best way for them.  After I was done I had no idea if I had completely blown it or if I was right on target.  But I guess I did all right.  So I am breathing a sigh of relief.

I still have three more mini-projects to do for Graduate Research Skills which I hope to knock out in the next two weeks.

And today I plan to sign up for three classes in the fall.  They are Graduate Writing Skills, Faith and Revelation (a core Theology course) and Latin I.  I figure I will know a lot of Latin I to begin with but it will give me practice in the stuff I don't go over in teaching high school level Latin I and then I'll be ready to take Latin II (at a graduate level) where I can finally move on to more advanced Latin.
One of the neat things about taking the exam on line was the fact that I could take it outside on the porch.  Yesterday was perfect summer weather.  I don't think I've ever taken an exam outside before.  I found it much more relaxing.

The bathroom is coming along nicely.  For a month now it's been nothing but dust and loud construction noises and workmen walking in and out and very little privacy.  But things are coming together now.  I was very nervous about whether I'd actually like what I'd picked for the vanities and tile, etc, but I think I do like them!

Everything is very unfinished but this shows the vanity and the tile.


New tile, shower floor tile and new soaker tub.

Our new honking big walk in closet!  I never though reconfiguring things would give us such a big closet!

A really great thing is that our houseguest had her case accepted by a Woman's Advocacy group so she is in the process of appealing for asylum.  Her little son is so adorable but he is busy!  And very advanced physically, so he is getting into all kinds of trouble.  I really worry for his safety.  We are trying to come up with things to keep him occupied and which will tire him out.  Right now we need a baby swing, so we can take him outside and push him in a swing.

Tomorrow is B's birthday!  My baby will be 15 years old!  She's 15 going on 30.  She has a big circle of friends and she is always asking for rides to this or that.  Why is it my girls were so extroverted and practically collect friends as a hobby whereas my boys struggle at various levels with their social lives???  Though Will has found a great circle of friends up in Boston.

And only 11 days until S leaves for World Youth Day.   Gotta get ready for that too.  Gee, I'm jealous.  I would love to go to Poland.

The other things I want to focus on is prepping for the Latin classes at the co-op and deep cleaning the house.  Right now, due to construction there is this white dust everywhere.  But also things are boxed up and we can't find anything and no matter how hard I try clutter collects on every horizontal plane.  I am the clutter queen.

Terrible things are going in the world and some days I get really sucked into all that and despair, but underneath the news in every day life, there is a lot of good, lots to be thankful for and to rejoice in.

Saturday, July 9, 2016

Everyone Should Support Police Accountability

I really like this article by Rachel Lu.  It seems very level-headed and smart.

And this video is really good.

Sunday, July 3, 2016

Living with a Dead Language - Book 19

A friend of mine who knew I had taken up studying Latin in my old age alerted me to this book.  Thank you, Lisa!



Living with a Dead Language:  My Romance with Latin by Ann Patty is an interesting narrative of the author's attempt to basically ward off boredom and depression in her retirement years by developing a new passion for the ancient language of Latin.

Patty was a New York editor and publisher.  She's famous for editing Flowers in the Attic, a book series that I consciously avoided growing up.  I'm glad.  Finding out more about them made me shudder.  I only read a few scary books growing up and realized I simply didn't have the temperament to deal with creepy, horrible stuff. She also edited Life of Pi which I really loved (though it definitely has some creepy bits!).  After her retirement she moved out to the country in upstate New York, even though she has a very mixed love/hate relationship with country life.   She grew terrified she would turn into her mother, a woman Patty sees has having been oppressed by patriarchy and as a result an alcoholic who died at the age of 66.  Her mother had urged Patty to take Latin in high school, as she (the mother) had done really well in that subject and had a lifelong love for it.  Patty had rebelled and taken French instead.  After she graduates from Berkeley she moves to New York to get into the publishing industry and never looks back.

Anyone who has taken up something academic in their middle age or later or who has studied Latin will recognize a lot of what Patty recounts here.  Failing eyesight, realizing your memory isn't what it used to be, trying to tackle the seemingly undue complexities and vagaries of the Latin language.  There's a lot about this book I really enjoyed.

However, I will say that while, at times I found the author likable, she really irritated me in many ways too.  This is her attempt to reconcile her dysfunctional past and the gaping void of death before her.  She is almost a caricature of a baby boomer feminist.  She truly is a creature of her time who seems to have never questioned the prevailing cultural trends and yet she is outright arrogant about how much smarter she is than others.  She may be smart but she didn't strike me as a particularly wise person.  She's twice divorced and now living with a guy who she says she'll never marry.  He's completely different from her and honestly, the way she writes about him, she seems puzzled at how she ever wound up with him.  She says she doesn't need intellectual talk, just kindness.  It might just have been her writing style.  She didn't seem to really be able to convey any depth, even when she was trying mightily, like when talking about love and death.

Anyway, she's into yoga and Buddhism and hates Christianity (because patriarchy.  But, and this is a genuine question, aren't Buddhist and Hindu cultures equally or more patriarchal?)  And she occasionally goes out of her way to make overused meme-like sneers at people she deems unworthy.

So at times she is rather tiresome.  She's weird about sex too.  She takes an adolescent delight in Catullus' dirty poetry and goes into great detail about it all.  She likes to eye the sweet young things in her classes at Vassar, even though most seem to be gay, but she likes gay men. She has a life long habit of getting crushes on gay men.  Even in her sixties, she can't seem to get over it. It's a little creepy, frankly.

But the end of the book got better, I thought.  I really enjoyed reading about her volunteering to help inner city kids learn Latin.  I have had daydreams of doing just that.  So that was cool.  And her trip to Rome with the Paideia Institute was fascinating.  I've heard about the legendary Father Reginald Foster who created such a love for Latin in his students that they, in large part, are responsible for a revival in studying Latin.  And I laughed out loud at the part, at the end, when she is at the Paideia conference in Rome, heady with being included among really high level Latinists, and she accidentally confuses ab for ad.  It takes a lot of humility to write about such a basic mistake!  And I loved it when she confessed that she had always avoided really learning the sequence of tenses.  I can relate to that!

So while I kept going in and out of liking the author, the book ended on a high note.  If you are into Latin, the book is a worthwhile read.

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