Friday, April 6, 2018

Seton Hall University

We had a day yesterday.  We got up super early and took a taxi into DC, got on a train and traveled up to Newark, NJ.  We then got into another taxi and drove to South Orange, NJ, home of Seton Hall University.  We got there in time for our 10 a.m. tour. 

When we filled out the registration form for the tour, they asked what field of study the student was interested in.  I put down theater for B, even though she is growing more and more interested in psychology.  It may be that theater is more of a hobby for her while psychology becomes a career?  I guess at 16 years old it is too early to tell!  But anyway, the tour started in an auditorium where one of the counselors from the school gave a brief introductory talk which of course talked up all the great points of the school.  90% of the students get some kind of scholarship.  81% of the students do some kind of internship.  They really push internships and how much they help students get jobs after college.  The school is a 30 minute train ride from downtown Manhattan and many students intern with big name employers.  B was especially interested in the Saturday Night Life and Tonight show with Jimmy Fallon internships!

The beautiful chapel.  This is the only picture I took on the tour!


After the general talk we were broken up into small groups, each with a tour guide.  Ours was Caroline.  I think she said she was a science major, but I don't know which science, maybe biology?  She is a junior.  Very perky and pretty girl.  She made a good impression.  I didn't take many pictures at all.  I was busy walking and listening.  The campus is pretty with some very old buildings and some new construction.  There are several colleges within the University.  The original and biggest college was the communication and arts college.  They also had a school of diplomacy, a business school, a nursing and medical services school and probably something else, I think maybe a school of education.  Actually that might be the original college since they named themselves after St. Elizabeth Ann Seton and she started the Catholic school system in the USA.  Anyway,  this fall they are starting a brand new medical school for actual doctors!  I thought that was pretty cool.  Hannah's friend is trying to become a doctor and she has to be really careful in choosing which school because most medical schools regularly have you perform abortions during residency!  Isn't that awful?  So we need Catholic medical schools.

We saw one of the dorms.  It looked like a dorm.  They do have coed dorms.  So one suite of rooms will have girls and the suite next door could have guys.  I don't recall her mentioning anything like visitation hours or anything.  I guess you couldn't have something like that.  So I don't think Seton Hall will ever make it into the Newman Guide for this reason.  However, it made me think of Hannah's experience with the University of Dallas.  One complaint she had there was that confession was only offered once a week and at a really inconvenient time and place even.  So they had separate dorms for men and women but made it hard to go to confession.  At Seton Hall, they had coed dorms but apparently you can go to confession every day at the very conveniently centered chapel!  LOL.  So I guess two different ways to approach the same problem!

One thing that surprised me about the dorms is that the school does not guarantee on campus housing.  In fact only about 80% of the freshmen live on campus and for upperclassmen this goes down to 50%.  The town of South Orange provides lots of group housing for the students and there are a fair number of commuters as well. 

We saw the cafeteria which was huge and had lots of different areas with different types of food.  We were in fact able to get a salad that seemed to conform to B's dietary restrictions.  We also saw the sports facility.  It has a huge indoor basketball court.  They are big into sports in whatever division they are in.  (I don't ever retain that kind of info!).  They also had an indoor pool and a big exercise machine area.  We saw students playing basketball and working out.  We went into an empty classroom in the business school where she talked about various requirements and answered questions about the different colleges and such.  She pointed out various important buildings like where you'd go for financial stuff and where the bookstore was, etc.  We went into the library and learned about the best places to study.

We stopped into the chapel.  Caroline our tour guide said that Seton Hall was as Catholic as you wanted to make it.  There were crucifixes in every room/building entrance.  I saw a couple of priests walking around but I also saw at least three different Muslim women obviously coming in and out of classes.  I really liked that there was every color under the rainbow in the student body, but no one looked like they were 'posing.'  I just remember one time walking through the Georgetown U. campus.  Every ten feet there were posters about LGTBQ rights and so many of the students had mohawk, dyed bright pink hair styles, etc.  It just gave off this vibe.  I did see one poster about LGTBQ at Seton Hall, and there may have been an occasional student with a pierced nose, but while walking around campus, seeing kids going to and from classes, lining up and then eating in the cafeteria, etc, they all looked like regular kids who were busy getting an education.  So the vibe of the school didn't feel politically radical to me, but it didn't feel stuffy and right wing either.  It struck me as balanced.

Since I have become so interested in environmental issues lately, I was pleased to see that the school offers an environmental studies degree.  And on the tour we passed by a big garden that either the department or ecology club had started.  I also noticed they tried to do recycling, though the cafeteria has tons of plastic going on.  However, they did have a hydration station where I could fill up my own water bottle.  So SHU could improve but seems like it is moving in the right direction.

Someone on the tour asked about campus safety.  our guide and the woman who gave the general talk (and she had an assistant there was well who was a girl) all said as females they felt safe walking around campus late at night.  The campus is gated and there are emergency call boxes throughout.  They also have campus police who regularly patrol the grounds.  The South Orange police station is literally down the street.  Since the whole area really seems dominated by students, it seems like people are probably up and about at all hours.

After eating in the cafeteria, we went looking for the theater which is in the same building.  It is a theatre in the round.  They were filming an interview in there for a media studies class.  A graduate student/assistant teacher came over and chatted with us.  Everyone was so friendly and down to earth.  That just wasn't the campus either.  We got lost in Newark and everybody was friendly and helpful.  I always think there is this reputation for rudeness in the New York/New Jersey area but it is not true.  Frankly, I think Washington DC is way ruder. 

Back to theater, the guide said the college also performs in South Orange's performing arts center (SOPAC) which is right by the train station we discovered when we wandered around South Orange.

After our tour we walked out into South Orange which is literally a 10 minute walk away.  Very cute little downtown area.  We were freezing the whole time.  It has obviously been much colder up there than here.  They still had patches of snow on the ground.  The temperature was a high of 35 and with the wind chill it felt like 29.  And it did.  It was so uncomfortable.  We had only brought light jackets and no gloves or hats.  And we were outside a good bit of the time walking around lost, waiting for buses and trains on windy platforms.  Brrrr.  That kind of colored our impressions too.  And really tired us out.  And we were already tired from getting up early and traveling and not eating breakfast and almost fainting from hunger while on the tour before lunch.  But despite that major discomfort, I think we both were favorably impressed.  I could see B there, fitting right in.

Thursday, March 29, 2018

Spring Exercise Plan

Ok.  I really need to stave off encroaching old age by doing some smart exercising.  Last October when I spent the whole month limping because of an arthritic flair that resulted in my hiking up a rocky mountain trail, should have been enough to keep me consistent.  But no it didn't.  And now my knee is starting to hurt again.  So. . .

1)  I resolve to use my elliptical to strengthen my knees by working at at least a few minutes every other day.  This is my little elliptical I have in the family room.  I can sit and work my knees with no stress from it.  It really helped build muscle around the knee and kept the arthritis under control.

2)  I resolve to exercise - doing the physical therapy guys list of exercises for people like me.  I especially like their core exercises.  And that's what I'm going to focus on.

3)  I already do stretching exercises almost every day because I stiffen up so much, especially in my neck and shoulder area, so the stretching feels really good.  I will continue with the stretching!

4)  Try to walk, at least a few minutes, as many times a week as I can.  Might be for 10 minutes, might be 20 or 30.  Whatever I can reasonably squeeze in.  The weather should be getting nicer out.  So no excuses.

I am making this commitment officially starting April 1st - Easter (just cause I like making resolutions at significant times) through July 1.   Let's see if I can stick with it for 3 months.

Wednesday, March 28, 2018

My Banner Was on TV!

I didn't go to the March for Our Lives protest, but the American Solidarity Party did.  It's true, I left that party but I still wish it well and I bequeathed it the banner that I had commissioned and paid for myself!  My whole idea was to get on TV with it.  This shot is from EWTN's Nightly News for Monday.  I didn't see it but a friend of mine texted me to tell me about it.

Here's a screen shot from my phone.

Tuesday, March 27, 2018

Cava Grille Copycat Cole Slaw Recipe

I made this coleslaw with green instead of red cabbage (because that's what I had) and it was delicious!  I think it will be even better next time when I do make it with red cabbage just like Cava Grille.  By the way, I just chopped up the cabbage and grated the carrots.  I didn't bother to get out a blender or food processor (which I haven't used in eons and have a vague memory I couldn't find all the parts last time anyway).  Either I am getting better at chopping more efficiently or am just lazy about cleaning up, but to me it is much easier to chop and then clean a knife and cutting board instead of having to deal with cleaning out my blender. 

The recipe I used is from this site.

(I had a fairly large head of green cabbage so I wound up using maybe about a bit more than half of it.)

Original recipe:
1 small head of red cabbage, shredded (I just chopped up small)
4 large carrots, shredded (I used my handy-dandy 4 sided grater)
4 green onions, thinly sliced (I picked out the 4 largest in my bunch)

The dressing makes the dish!

1 tbsp Dijon mustard
1 garlic clove, minced (I cheated and used a dollop of already minced garlic from a jar)
1/3 cup extra virgin olive oil
1/4 cup apple cider vinegar (I used Bragg's)
2 tbsp fresh lemon juice
1 tbsp of honey
1/4 tsp vanilla extract (thought this was a weird ingredient and couldn't really taste it over the vinegar but maybe it helps?)
1/4 tsp chili powder
salt and pepper to taste
(Parsley to garnish - I didn't have any fresh parsley because the parsley I was growing on my kitchen counter died.  But this dish is so colorful, you don't really need it.  However, the parsley might also help cut the vinegar flavor a bit.  So I say, if you have fresh parsley, use it!)

I did add a splash more olive oil when making this because I do find that apple cider vinegar is pretty overpowering.

People loved this coleslaw!  It tastes even better the next day!  This one is a definite keeper.  I think the key for my family is they love raw carrots (one of the few vegetables everybody will eat happily).  So the fact that there is a lot of shredded carrot in this recipe, made the cabbage more palatable for them.  Also, this isn't a mayonnaise based dressing, which half the family objects to.

Winner!






Sunday, March 25, 2018

Holy Week Count Down

Here's the plan:

Monday - attend outdoor Stations of the Cross with local homeschool group.
Tuesday - See the new movie about St. Paul
Wednesday - shop for Passover, Easter breakfast and dinner, go to confession at night
Thursday - attend Holy Thursday Mass
Good Friday - Fast, attend Adoration of the Cross, dye Easter Eggs
Holy Saturday - Host Passover for family; go to vigil (which starts at 8:30!!!)
Easter Sunday - hunt for Easter Eggs - eat matzoh brie and other things (have to be gluten free), relax, roast the lamb shoulder and do all the fixings for an early dinner. 

I am sure this is going to be complicated by B's rehearsal schedule and community college classes. 

Sunday, March 11, 2018

Date Night and Planning Our Anniversary Trip!

Rick and I haven't had a real date in a while.   Lately, we just seem to run errands together and call that a date.  But last night we actually made reservations at a nice restaurant and then went to the movies afterwards!  Dinner was very nice at Sweetwater Tavern.  And then we saw Darkest Hour, which was okay but not as good as I expected it to be.  It was rather contrived and they really dumbed down Winston Churchill.  However, it wasn't horrible and I am fascinated with that time period in history.  So it was an enjoyable evening.  AND we started planning our 30th wedding anniversary trip. 

I'm a bit suspicious so I'm kind of nervous about planning this far in advance.  One never knows what may happen between now and then, but you only have 1 30th anniversary, so we decided to plan anyway.

So here's what we are thinking:

Leave home on Saturday, 10/27/18 on a night flight to London - nopstop. 
Arrive in London around 7 a.m. their time Sunday.  Spend the day going to Mass, some gentle sightseeing (maybe one of those city tour buses), some resting and relaxing.
Next morning take an early morning flight to Tel Aviv where hopefully our tour group will pick us up and get us to Jerusalem where the tour starts.
Then we spend the next week seeing Jerusalem, Bethlehem, Petra, Wadi Rum, Eilat, Negev Desert, Masada, the Dead Sea, Galilee and Nazareth.
We'll spend the last day (11/5 - our actually wedding anniversary) as a free day in Jerusalem.
11/6 we'll fly back to London and have that evening and the next two days to poke around London.
Fly home on Friday so we have the weekend to deal with jet lag.

I'm excited!  I hope this works out!

Thursday, March 8, 2018

I'm thinking of starting a vlog

This may be a dumb idea.  I'm thinking of doing it for several reasons.

1) It would be to commemorate in a different way, my last year of homeschooling (so it wouldn't start officially until August or something).
2)  I would have to learn new skills which would be kind of cool.
3)  The blog world used to be hopping!  But now it has kind of died down, at least in my obscure corner of it, whereas vlogs seems to be more popular now.
4)  I think having an external, visual record of things would help me get over my extreme laziness/burn out in terms of keeping things tidier around here.  If I know the camera will be on, I think I'll be more intentional and on top of my game so to speak.  At least for a while!

I'm thinking I would still call it Household Diary and there would be different sections I'd sort of 'report' on maybe 2x a week.  I could have clips on: 

Bits and pieces of our current homeschooling
A retrospective on the last 20 years of homeschooling
My philosophy of homeschooling
My favorite read alouds and resources over the years
Zero waste living
Cooking
Gardening
Housekeeping
Books I'm currently reading
Nature/parks we visit
Prayer and spirituality/liturgical year

I keep thinking of other ideas too, for clips.  I don't think others in my family would figure heavily in this, as they are not keen on being on camera especially.